“…the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it.” Matthew 7:14
It’s human nature to follow the crowd. From peer pressure in school to societal expectations in adulthood, the desire to blend in and be part of the majority is strong. But Jesus warns us that when the crowd is going one way, it’s more likely the wrong way than the right way. His way—the narrow way—is the road less traveled.
The broad road is popular because anything goes (Matthew 7:13). It’s a path with no resistance, where sin is not confronted but celebrated. Phrases like, “Follow your heart,” and “Live your truth” are appealing because they make no demands on our sinful nature. In contrast, the narrow way calls for not only denying self but dying to self (Luke 9:23, Galatians 2:20), which is why not many choose it.
We may have fewer friends by saying “no” to things the world easily embraces. And it’s certainly not popular to stand up for biblical truth. We might be misunderstood, mocked, or even persecuted. But why are we surprised when these things happen? Jesus clearly said that the majority would reject His way of life.
While the narrow road may be less traveled, it doesn’t have to be walked alone. That’s why Christian fellowship is essential. So, find a healthy Bible-preaching church and get involved! Joining a small group offers the encouragement of other believers, as well as accountability. The narrow road is easier to walk when you’re walking with like-minded friends. We all need people in our circle who remind us of godly truth when the world tells us lies.
But most of all, the road less traveled is life in communion with God. He is the “friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24). He’s the One who promises, “I am with you always” (Matthew 28:20), and “I will never leave you nor forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5 NKJV). No matter where the narrow road takes you, the Lord’s presence will comfort and guide you (Psalm 23:3-4).
How have you been swayed by the crowd? Which friends make the broad way look enticing? Remember, the fact that everyone else is doing something is probably a good reason not to go along. Instead, surround yourself with friends who share your desire to faithfully follow Jesus. They may be few in number but that’s also why they are of great value.